We've all had that crash course mini-session of Psychology in High School. If not, then we've all had a mediocre course that taught us a thing or two about it in College. In conclusion, most of us know, or have heard of Type A and Type B Personalities.
- Type A is the personality that is significantly stressed and worried when things aren't up to par. They are the ones who feel a sense of urgency to do things and get things done. Time is consumed with the constant thought of the responsibilities. This A Person is the type you see that is rushing, yet organized, and on constant alert when it comes to their surroundings, situations and dealings.
- Type B is the relaxed personality. This is the type of personality that takes life as it is dealt and has a lower level of stress. This person has a lesser sense of urgency, are usually more patient, and are generally more easy-going.
Question is: Can a Type A & a Type B Function Well In A Relationship?
I personally believe that Type A would (more than likely) drive themselves into a pit of depression, worry, and constant fear if there were no Type B personality around them. There would be no sense of 'Urgency to be Happy'. The Type A person is the one that consistently runs the households numbers, calculations, & bills through their head a million times. In A's mind, stability is key, and that person would do almost anything to gain that in their lives. The perseverance and drive comes naturally to do and accomplish tasks that are given and/or thought of. This is the "If-That-Then" personality. Constantly preparing for each outcome of any situation.
The Type B's Role is that of the caretaker. The one who makes sure that A doesn't forget to breath because of the constant figures running in their mind. They're the calming, soothing voice that allows life to take it's course. Whatever will happen, will be dealt with when it arrives. This trait is equivalent to less stress, and gives B the time to leisurely enjoy more simple moments in life.
Though Type A and Type B function in completely opposite ways, I do think that while Type A is being calmed down and relaxed by Type B, Type B is being Motivated and Driven by Type A. Each are challenged to perform against their personality types. This not only keeps the relationship interesting, but can be benefiting to each personality on an individual level.
If this strange and weird concoction is dealt properly, the small exchange of disapproving words and minor persuasions of one Type to do something against their Personality Type are subtracted, the outcome would be Pure Bliss.
Disclaimer: Do Not Be Offended by this entry. Two Type A's and Two Type B's can work as well. I will write a Blog on this later. With that in mind, please refrain from any negative comments, what-if's or why's in response to this post. If I offended anyone, I care not to know, and please know... That I Do Not Care.
