"Say No... To The Hoe"

Anyone can write a blog on How To Be or How Not To Be a "Hoe", "Whore", "or "Heaux". 

This right here: Is the Blog that will tell both sides of reasoning to why not to Hoe-Around, and/or not to even attempt to turn a 'Hoe' into a 'Housewife'. 

It began with @yashaunya (via Twitter.com) wanting me to set the record straight because apparently Women are getting out of control with the removal of clothes on camera, the increase in public indecency, and the sky rocketing statistics showing that more women are seeking rank, status, and respect via "Nakedness".

*Slaps On Hand* NO! No Ma'am... 

From a Female Perspective: 

Hoeing isn't a way to gain any type of respect. A man will have you behind closed doors, but don't be mad when the Company's Christmas Party comes along and you're in awe because dude's wife is back on his arms. 

Yes. Sex Sells. Sex and Nudity will ensure a cash flow... For now. You are only as famous as far as your next wrinkle, Botox, and booty injections. Your videos will only go as far as your Gag-Reflex. 

Please don't get it twisted.  

Every woman has a bit of 'Whore' in her. There is a place and a time. The phrase 'Lady in the streets and Freak in the Sheets' goes a LONG way, and it's there for a reason: Men do not want to be seen with the woman that 9 out of 10 of their homeboys have 'smashed'. 

From a Male Perspective (and Yes, I have gotten a male's perspective):

It's not every man's dream to be with a 'Hoe'. Just as a woman wants to have the 'American Dream', men want someone to Take Home To Momma, and be seen with in public. 

Just as Drake said: I don't want to be seen with anybody that's been with everybody.

It's true. The Video Hoes, the Twitter Ass Shots, Facebook Fans of Booty... Will get you as far as the distance between the  mouse and you getting their hand to make a fist in their laps.

If that gives you satisfaction... If you feel as if you have control over a man because you have control over a stiff member... Then I do seriously feel sorry for you. 

A woman's role can be mind boggling, creative, and exciting with clothes on... Not to mention, a Heck of a Lot More Powerful. 

A woman with a brain can do far more than a woman with just 'ass'. 

(Not saying that having both can't work either *LOL*)

So to those who are reading this: Please Take Heed and Spread the Word: Say No To A Hoe and Save The Human Species.

"One "

• One time of pain can cause a mountain of struggle to hike through. 
• One moment of happiness can be passed on to the next. 
• One break-up can cause pain forever. 
• One title can create a power couple. 
• One stumble can cause a broken bone.
• One cast can mend a bone.
  
• One argument can cause the question of love between two people.
  One touch can eliminate the hurt that it caused. 
• One doubt can cause paranoia. 
• One trust having person can be a great asset. 
• One moment can either cause, or be the result of another. Either way it goes... Be careful how a situation ends up... So make sure that all situations are at ease and resolved before assuming that the one situation hasn't made the other uncomfortable. One thought before One action can change One situation and prevent One cycle of emotion from evolving the wrong way.
  
• One broken heart can be fatal. 

(I wrote this quickly so I may edit later...Thanks for reading...)

"The Kid"

I wish I was a kid again.
A non-habit having , carefree, kid again. A ride-bike, tree-climbing, fall off, no-cry kid again. Because now, the 'no pain, no gain' rule applies to all situations and relationships.
You have to cry to pry open the gate labeled 'Moving Forward'.
You try not to lie, yet honest lives lead to denial of the real reasons why you tried to pry the gate in the first place.
You deny that you tried because you cared & loved, in fear of losing pride and gaining judgments.

I wish I was a kid again.
An action-high, all smile kid again. A no-pride, no fear, no hide, kid again.
Because now instead of monsters in the closets to spray away, we have imagined walls built around hearts.
Grown ass men and women too scared to lower, too weak to break. Instead of crushes and first kisses on playgrounds, we have turned the cute 'Puppy Love' story into a Blood Sport called plain old 'Love'.
I wish I was a kid again, the grown up shit is for the birds.

Emotion: Anger

Main Entry: ¹up·set

Pronunciation: \(ˌ)əp-ˈset\

Function: verb

Inflected Form(s): up·set; up·set·ting

Date: 1677

3 a: to trouble mentally or emotionally : disturb the poise of b: to throw into disorder c:invalidated: to defeat unexpectedly

I've never been able to express my upset emotion well. I either overreact or under-react and I'll be the first to admit: neither are proper. My expressions now: Singing, Cleaning, Writing, Doodling...
Coming from being a person to argue via texts, hangups, and name calling, I don't know how else to tell a person "I'm upset" without actually making them upset at me. The verbiage and expressions just aren't there. #KanyeShrug
*Back to singing*
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