This right here: Is the Blog that will tell both sides of reasoning to why not to Hoe-Around, and/or not to even attempt to turn a 'Hoe' into a 'Housewife'.
It began with @yashaunya (via Twitter.com) wanting me to set the record straight because apparently Women are getting out of control with the removal of clothes on camera, the increase in public indecency, and the sky rocketing statistics showing that more women are seeking rank, status, and respect via "Nakedness".
*Slaps On Hand* NO! No Ma'am...
From a Female Perspective:
Hoeing isn't a way to gain any type of respect. A man will have you behind closed doors, but don't be mad when the Company's Christmas Party comes along and you're in awe because dude's wife is back on his arms.
Yes. Sex Sells. Sex and Nudity will ensure a cash flow... For now. You are only as famous as far as your next wrinkle, Botox, and booty injections. Your videos will only go as far as your Gag-Reflex.
Please don't get it twisted.
Every woman has a bit of 'Whore' in her. There is a place and a time. The phrase 'Lady in the streets and Freak in the Sheets' goes a LONG way, and it's there for a reason: Men do not want to be seen with the woman that 9 out of 10 of their homeboys have 'smashed'.
From a Male Perspective (and Yes, I have gotten a male's perspective):
It's not every man's dream to be with a 'Hoe'. Just as a woman wants to have the 'American Dream', men want someone to Take Home To Momma, and be seen with in public.
Just as Drake said: I don't want to be seen with anybody that's been with everybody.
It's true. The Video Hoes, the Twitter Ass Shots, Facebook Fans of Booty... Will get you as far as the distance between the mouse and you getting their hand to make a fist in their laps.
If that gives you satisfaction... If you feel as if you have control over a man because you have control over a stiff member... Then I do seriously feel sorry for you.
A woman's role can be mind boggling, creative, and exciting with clothes on... Not to mention, a Heck of a Lot More Powerful.
A woman with a brain can do far more than a woman with just 'ass'.
(Not saying that having both can't work either *LOL*)
So to those who are reading this: Please Take Heed and Spread the Word: Say No To A Hoe and Save The Human Species.
Yes!!!! Amen....preach! This is a trend that must be stopped. I cannot begin to explain how excited I am that you posted this!! "SAY NO TO A HOE" EVERYONE...PLEASE!!
ReplyDeleteI Can Dig
ReplyDeleteI feel you on everything that was posted. I have had the same views for a long time and am glad that you found time to address the issue. But alot of women want a man to wine and dine them when they let every other dude smash and treat them like trash. This is real talk and you tell it well.
ReplyDeleteMale perspective #2:
ReplyDeleteMen make a decision really quick whether a woman is gonna be "wanted" or "used". If you give a man the IMPRESSION that you are willing to leverage your sexuality for his attention, then you have just decided for him that your value is as low as my credit score (actually it's not that bad but still).
No one wants to parade something around that is deemed devalued. When a woman going out she picks out her best, puts on her best, smells her best. A man is the same way. Except it is up to a woman to determine whether she is closet or stage material.